I am sure there are a lot of people out there, wondering like me where exactly do we "fit in". I am a malayali by birth , with a Christian mother and a Hindu father , born and brought up in Gujarat. Trust me , "fitting in " becomes an issue anywhere I go. I have to make an extra effort to learn some language, some custom , "getting along"has never come naturally or easily to me.
Sometimes I feel it is a blessing, I got a chance to feel two different religions as well as two different life styles closely. I got the privilege to get the best , even compare different beliefs. People like me , invariably grow beyond these boundaries of faith. I am sure it made me a more mature person and helped me in not becoming any "typical" kind.
On the other hand, it is hard to find people of my own kind.. :) because I don't really have a defined "kind" in the first place. When I try to analyse myself as a person , there is such a compound mixture, that to find people who I can relate to becomes difficult. I sometimes feel life and choosing friends would have been a lot easier , had I been a typical malayali or typical anti-mallu or may be a staunch Hindu.I feel ,then I would have fallen in some general category and finding like people would be simpler....
This trail of thoughts hits me almost everyday , when I am talking/ enjoying / may be working in a group. And I find myself wondering "hey I am not like these people either :)." I believe I am not alone, i guess people like me, the "confused" kind is now vast enough to form an independent kind of its own.
I am not happy with being a confused person. It wont be nice to have a world with people like me, we are like water , we mould ourselves differently at different times.